As per your chart you will be going through a painful married life if you decide to stay with this marriage. it is not like that yo are agree to stay with your husband or not, here main thing is whether your destiny is ready to give you that result what you want. In my opinion after judging your D1 ir rashu=i chart and the D9 ir navamsa which is called the chart of marriage, this marriage ios not going be successful at all. Frankly speaking marriages do become successfull as long as both the partners are not ready to compromise with happiness and freedom of life.

As per your kundli, first you will have to stay away from your husband which you can call as separation for a time period, then the marriage will endup in divorcem here I am talking about official legal divorce. but as long as you will not be ready to give the matter will keep stretching, there will be no progress at all. If you are stretching the matter to resolve the issue or you are hoping that your as the time will pass everything will be ok, then you are on the wrong trackl. It will give you only frustration and will waste valuable time of your life. In my opinion you should go for mutual divorce. this is my observation as per your horoscope, now it is completely up to you, because in your life your decision is final.